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  • 21st May
    2013
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Friends Say Nichole Cable Knew Her Accused Killer

An Orono man is charged with killing a Glenburn teenager. Nichole Cable, 15, hadn’t been seen for more than a week. In a wooded area off of Gilman Falls Avenue in Old Town, more than a week …

I rarely post cases like this, but I recently had a follower message me who was talking to a man with similar characteristics to this guy, and I immediately told her to stop contact with him and she did. No one knows the full truth to this devastating story - but this man made an entirely fake Facebook page. This goes to show how important it is to DEEPLY RESEARCH and find true evidence supporting who you are speaking to online. It is easy to find out if the name is faked on Pipl.com because no information will show or no information connected to the online identity of such person will show. Many of the red flags include: he had a daughter (meaning he was probably married or already had a girlfriend), he just got released from jail and was charged in the past! I had a follower message me saying she researched a man she was speaking to online, and Pipl.com showed he had past charges and may or may not have been to jail before. She discontinued communication with him. 

Please DO NOT continue to communicate with ANY ONE online who has a past criminal record. It’s only looking for trouble! I’m going to add this to my safety tips page (please read it). If any one would like to share a comment or has a question, please inbox me. 

  • 21st May
    2013
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meet-you-at-the-moon:

There’s people who are afraid of planes, because the media will air any plane crash that they’re aware of. And even though there’s far more car crashes annually than plane crashes, those very people will still travel in any land transportation vehicle for the fact that it’s familiar and deemed safe. It’s the same principle behind the media airing the horror stories of meeting people online, but barely (if ever) show any success stories at all.

You’ll never know the adventure and view of riding in a plane, if you always travel by car.

With that said, I’m speaking freely as a person who has met her boyfriend, as well as several other close friends, from the internet. 

Monsters; they are everywhere, not just in the internet. Though I will admit that the barrier of the internet makes it only easier to mask your identity. If you’re smart enough though, you can spot red flags, which I advise any of my followers who are in online relationships to do. Be aware of what’s really going on, and protect yourself if you have to. I’m hoping none of you are in this situation, but if you are, be careful.
There’s a new story that’s been going around here the past week or so. A 15 year-old girl from two towns over from my own went missing. She met up with a guy who had created a fictitious facebook account, and last night they found her body. Today the man who did this to her, his real identity and all, has been charged with her murder.
What happened to this girl, Nichole Cable, is tragic. Sadly no one can change what happened to her, but you can be wise and alert to help protect yourself and loved ones. Just look out for red flags and know a person for a good amount of time before meeting from internet to in-person. Try your best to protect yourself. I’d hate to see anyone else in this situation. 

This thought shouldn’t be for just meeting people off the internet, but for meeting anyone in general, for it’s a classic story that man down the road isn’t as safe as you think he is.

Like I said, monsters are everywhere, it’s a dangerous world, and I want all my followers to be safe. From anyone they think is toxic to their well being.

For those who are afraid for their loved one who is involved with friends/lovers over the internet. You are better off helping your loved one decipher whether or not the person they are talking to is who they say they are. Taking a dictator stance, and putting them down for being involved with a confidant over the internet will only sever your relationship, and push them closer to the person you’re afraid of. 

 

Again, it’s a dangerous world. Tread carefully.

I suggest ALL my followers to read this. Please stay safe this summer.  

  • 20th May
    2013
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impossible—soul:

I’m thankful that video-calling exists cause seeing your blurry face made my whole entire day. Like, I look at you and it’s impossible for me to stop smiling. My cheeks kind of hurt actually.
Now I’m going to take a shower and eat cereal and watch a girly movie. :)

  • 20th May
    2013
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  • 20th May
    2013
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You know, online relationships aren’t stupid at all.

longdistancedifficulties:

When I first started my LDR a year ago, I was so worried that people would think that it’s stupid, and that finding a guy online made me desperate and seemed like I wasn’t good enough to find a guy here. Because honestly I used to think that about online relationships. 

The more I thought about it though, the more I realized, that isn’t the case. Meeting people online is just a new way of meeting people, it’s just like meeting blog friends but this is a whole new level. It’s not stupid or desperate at all, maybe there just isn’t someone compatible for you where you live.

Feelings are feelings no matter how far apart you are.

  • 20th May
    2013
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Hey! I'm coming back to you to tell you we've finally been skyping! It was SO amazing! We skyped for 8hours non stop... We couldn't stop looking at each other.. It was amazing! :')

Asked by: healthy-sexy-bitch

Awwwwee I’m soo happy for you!!! That is adorable <3 So glad this is turning into a happy  & safe journey for both of you :) Thank you for coming back to share!! 

  • 19th May
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  • 17th May
    2013
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someonesbum: “An invisible red thread connects those destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstances. The thread may stretch or tangle, but never break.”  -Ancient Chinese Proverb It is believed that a delicate red string is tied to your pinky right now. It extends brilliantly to the pinky of your soulmate- the one you are destined to be with for the rest of your life. I wish it was more useful. I want to pull my boyfriend all the way here.

someonesbum:

“An invisible red thread connects those destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstances. The thread may stretch or tangle, but never break.”  -Ancient Chinese Proverb

It is believed that a delicate red string is tied to your pinky right now. It extends brilliantly to the pinky of your soulmate- the one you are destined to be with for the rest of your life.

I wish it was more useful. I want to pull my boyfriend all the way here.

  • 16th May
    2013
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  • 15th May
    2013
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I fell in love online with an amazing man, he's perfect for me. We talked everyday and I had plans to visit him this summer. Last night after not responding to my texts for over three weeks, he tells me that he's actually not a couple of years older than me but 15 years, I want to say age is but a number,however I feel like it's wrong. I love him I really do and I don't want to loose him, but I want to do the right thing, any advice?I desperately need it. I have no idea what I'm doing anymore.

Asked by: Anonymous

I’m guessing you haven’t Skyped this man since you didn’t know about his real age? You need to Skype him before you make any travel plans whatsoever. Please read my “safety tips” page and follow the advice. 

Secondly,  it was wrong for him to lie to you about his age, and that may mean that he’s lying about many others things as well. I personally think it is perfectly normal to have an age difference between two partners (some couples on this blog are 12 years a part, so that’s close to 15!). If two partners truly love each other, I don’t see how age matters.

However, I see your situation as unsafe. It seems potentially dangerous right now. I strongly recommend you Skype him & read my “safety tips” page before you plan to meet up with him or fall for him harder. 

  • 14th May
    2013
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I am casting for a Television Show dealing with this very thing!!

Hello everyone!  I am casting for a Network Show and we are looking for people that are in an “Online” relationship, but have never met in person. We’d like to bring the two of you together to meet and compete against other couples. You must be an American Citizen, and both of you must live in the U.S.  

The idea is that you will have an opportunity to finally meet the person you’ve been skyping or chatting with and see how the two of you work together and get along.  Maybe it’ll work out, and maybe it won’t.  

I’d love to hear from anyone over 21.  couplescompetitionshow@gmail.com

Thanks.

wefellinloveonline comment: haha no way! I was asked to be on this show before I met up with my SO, but we lived in different countries unfortunately. I seriously recommend it to any couples in the U.S. who are interested! It’s an awesome opportunity to meet for the first time!! 

  • 14th May
    2013
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Hm, and he might come with a friend, in my country. I'm supposed to pick them up at the airport, at 10pm, and bring them at my aunt's holiday-house because it's not far from the airport, and the day after that they'll go to the hotel. I'm sometimes worried something happens to me. I don't really know if I can trust him. I mean, I wanna trust him, he's spending $6000 to see me abroad +he's in the police (verified), but.. I don't know. :/ My instincts I guess lol. What do you think ?

Asked by: healthy-sexy-bitch

Hmm this is an interesting situation. I’m finding it hard to believe that you’ve only met him 3 weeks ago. It sounds way too soon for him to make a big commitment of spending $6000 to see you only after 3 weeks of knowing you. Does that seem weird to you? It seems really weird to me.

You have every right to feel like it’s not sincere because it is going too fast. He must know that you think the relationship is going too fast. Also, please tell me - have you Skyped him? & if you Skyped him, does the video appear as not pre-recorded? If you haven’t Skyped him, I can guarantee this may be dangerous and he may be lying about his identity completely. Photography does not equal the truth. Photography can be very easily faked. 

However, the travel plan you two figured out sounds safe. It’s good that he wants to wait 2 months to get to know you as well. PLEASE bring a friend or family member with you. This is CRUCIAL. I don’t want to scare you at all (I’m just using this as an example), but in case he brings another person with him, they could easily turn you into a rape victim if they are not being truthful to you. & it doesn’t matter if he’s a police officer or not, police have been charged for serious crimes before. Also, it’s weird that he’s landing at 10pm at night! He should choose to land within your country during the day. It’s better to expect the worst and be very cautious and safe from the beginning.

This is what I think you should do (to stay as safe as possible):

1. Skype him as soon as possible. 

2.  Tell him you feel he’s taking the relationship too fast, and you would like to get to know him more. I wouldn’t plan any travel dates until you know him for at least 2-3 months via online/Skype. Or whenever you feel comfortable to meet up with him in person. He needs to understand that.  

3. READ MY “SAFTEY TIPS” PAGE! & please follow the advice.

4. In my opinion, I would not meet up with him until you know FOR SURE that this situation is not dangerous in any way whatsoever. 

Best of luck to you. I’d really like to hear an update on how things go.

& followers: could you please contribute to this? Does her situation seem weird/sketchy to you or not? I’d like to hear input from others, especially people who have possibly been in a similar situation. 

  • 14th May
    2013
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I'm happy I ran into this blog :) I met my "boyfriend" online like three weeks ago. I was worried he wasn't sincere because it was going way too fast, and we live like 22 000 km away from each other, but he says coming to see me in two months bc he loves to travel ! I've checked his background on Internet, and he sends me a lot of photos of his family, friends, I have proof he told his friends about our relationship! I hope he's really sincere.. because I really like him a lot. I'm abit afraid..

Asked by: healthy-sexy-bitch

  • 13th May
    2013
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This could be dangerous…

nonsensicalartist:

According to Tumblr almost everyone on here is single. If that’s true then why aren’t these single people dating each other and then there would be less single people. I mean clearly we all have the same interests and relationships are almost exclusively through Facebook these days anyway. Pretty much I think this could cure the forever alone syndrome we Tumblies have self-diagnosed ourselves with. 

loooooool ;)